Treat them like a friends ...

Mother board meeting ..

Anak anak skrg lebih advance .. They wanna us to treat them like an adult katanya ..
Aku jawab .. That is always my key words at home
" if u wanna me to treat u like an adult , so behave like one "
Salah , when parents said give up , but having words as giving up is ?
Or parents skrang lunasnya di lahirkan untuk tiada perasaan ? Atau dilahirkan dengan besar kesabaran ? APTB - apa pun tak boleh ! Wahh !!
Kata other friend " Biasa la budak skarang .. Permakanan , susu specially the impact is now when their growth .. "
Kata another friend " biasa budak , notty nye mana sangat, selagi tak mencuri tak merompakndan tak .. Tak takk lagi laaa .."

Bonding is absolutely different issued kan ... Masing masing ada basic .. Tambah anak melinium is different. Kita tak antar anak p ngaji , anak tanya " why u dont send me to mengaji ? " so many why in their head .. Kenapa mommy ? Tak boleh ke mommy ? Taknak mommy , okay mommy .. Is all followed their heart , perhaps adalah mereka fikir pasal perasaan mommy .. So what the issued of not treat them like a friend?

Wont you ever think u dare enough bagitahu your parents yang you tak nak p mengaji ..you tak nak itu dan ini. Normally those days we followed what the parents wants; one is because the understanding of " Asas kehidupan anak ibarat kain putih .. Mak ayah corakkan .. Hitam color , itam la result" Honestly its carried 40% vintage ONLY with that statement.. Now days bukan itu macam lagi ..Kita antar p tuition dia jawab " i taknak tuition here , can i enroll another tuition ? Kat sini tak best la ... ( wahh , nak amek ilmu pun kira best )
Bila kita bagitahu panas lagi nak p main bola dia jawab " mommy kalau tak nak panas diorg main futsal.. Main bola memang panas ... ( wahh ... )

However diorang penjana masa depan .. Diorang yang bakal menerajui dunia ...
Mother board bersidang lagi ... Nak treat macam mana lagi . Bila anak anak compare .. Her parents allowed why my parents did not . Bukan buat apa pun just gathering .. APTB - apa pun tak boleh ..

Tanya ibu yang lahirkan anak , sedih tak dengan perubahan detik masa mula mula lahir , meniarap , berjalan , boleh bcakap , p skool seluar biru , then p skool seluar hijau .. Then masuk university ... I bet you ( kalau ada anak anak yang membaca) they all missed so much that moment .. Kalau boleh anak umur 30 tahun sekali pun ibu ni nak peluk .. Nak cium .. Nak sleep macam dulu ...

Nanti mother board meeting bersidang lagi .. I share lagi ..

p/s : dont get me wrong tak de kena mengena dengan siapa .. Mommy bukan nama sebenar .. Ibu pun cuma nama diadaptasi .. It just an issued some mother's has bring up for god seek to improve mak bahavior u know ... Takde kena mengena yang hidup atau pun yang mati ...