HERO

Lets keep this thread interesting and lets take a moment to think about the best of our husband. Every day in and day out we love,fight,understand,quarrel, bite,pinch,cry,smile and hug.
This is life...But we all should accept that our husband is the only soul created and bonded especially for us.It is just that situation and once's emotions/mood that keep happy or wild..
and lets rejoice with the one who is specially made for us and lets keep loving them forever :)

1) Was your's love or arranged marriage?
2) Your husband's pet name for you?
3) What is your husband's shirt and trouser size, fav dish,color,hobby ?
4) Do you like if you husband talks or gets close to his mom and his family
(need honest answers ?
5) List the top 5 best qualities of your husband ?
6)What aspects do you think that your husband should change for you (3 points)?
7)What do you feel is the secret of successful marriage ( 3 points) ?
** if u guys unable to answer 4 from 7 question , please learn to know your hubby better ~

Wishing you all happy happy married life forever.

** copy same from others blogger ..

A visit

We managed to park on the grass adjacent to the small car park most times but on one occasion, at the weekend, took what was the last space in the car park across the road.

Pack your stuff , sit back relax and enjoy the journey.

We had an extremely enjoyable stay here for a short trip. Arrived a couple of hours early but were checked in right away to our room – a premium water chalet – would recommend these as the view is right across the sea rather than to other chalets as shown in my photo. The room was clean and pleasantly spacious and we loved the outside shower/bathroom arrangement. The free Wifi worked very well.

The pools were all good though we spent most of our time by the adult one (as did the peacocks). The other pools were just as good and had more sections to interest children.

We found all the staff very friendly and helpful, particularly those in the restaurants. We had several buffets and enjoyed them very much, they were not cheap but we were hungry as we do not eat much lunch so we had value for money.

Regarding less favorable comments made by previous reviewers – we had no problems of any sort with insects; possibly it was the time of year or they had successfully dealt with them. Breakfast was acceptable and enjoyable though sometimes rather crowded but this was to be expected during school holidays and the staff were always very good at refilling everything and getting anything extra we wanted.

Overall an excellent holiday and we shall be back.

Alfatihah buat Aziz moga rohnya dicucuri rahmat~

11.20@5th March 2011 , my hubby received a phone call from his friend saying that his best friend just passed away. Quite shock because they both , Aziz and him just had discussed about the business that his (my husband) running now ,they just met yesterday.

He (my husband) call another friend to double confirm the story.No one knows, then he decided to call Aziz handphone yet no reply.

It happens when we on our way to fetching out our daughter back from School Marathon. Earlier we wanted to have nasi ayam kampung at Cheras but finally he decided to changed the plan because he wanted to go to Aziz house for confirmation. Around 1.50 , we about to reach home ; Yus called , (Aziz's wife) confirmed that Aziz has passed away. We quite shock but we pray to god the he will place at the best people, Isya Allah.

The story begin : He drove his van ( his a tour guide) with about 8 people supposed to visit Cameron Highland. At Tapah , he had chest pain and he stop at one of the rest house. He had attack . Bring him to hospital and his confirmed dead at 11 am.

~life very simple is it ? but what I want is to share what should we do when we had the attack or some one that we love has a chest pain. Please dont take things simple.

Heart attack

A heart attack occurs when an artery that supplies oxygen to your heart muscle becomes blocked. A heart attack may cause chest pain that lasts 15 minutes or longer. But a heart attack can also be silent and produce no signs or symptoms.

Many people who experience a heart attack have warning symptoms hours, days or weeks in advance. The earliest warning sign of an attack may be ongoing episodes of chest pain that start when you're physically active, but are relieved by rest.

Someone having a heart attack may experience any or all of the following:

• Uncomfortable pressure, fullness or squeezing pain in the center of the chest lasting more than a few minutes
• Pain spreading to the shoulders, neck or arms
• Light headedness, fainting, sweating, nausea or shortness of breath

Example:(Submitted, August 2007) Subject: IMPORTANT read this! Cough CPR

A cardiologist says If everyone who gets this mail sends it to 10 people, you can bet that we'll save at least one life.

Read this... It could save your life!! Let's say it's 6.15 pm and you're driving home (alone of course), after an unusually hard day on the job. You're really tired, upset and frustrated. Suddenly you start experiencing severe pain in your chest that starts to radiate out into your arm and up into your jaw. You are only about five miles from the hospital nearest your home. Unfortunately you don't know if you'll be able to make it that far. You have been trained in CPR, but the guy that taught the course did not tell you how to perform it on yourself.

HOW TO SURVIVE A HEART ATTACK WHEN ALONE

Since many people are alone when they suffer a heart attack, without help, the person whose heart is beating improperly and who begins to feel faint, has only about 10 seconds left before losing consciousness. However, these victims can help themselves by coughing repeatedly and very vigorously. A deep breath should be taken before each cough, and the cough must be deep and prolonged, as when producing sputum from deep inside the chest. A breath and a cough must be repeated about every two seconds without let-up until help arrives, or until the heart is felt to be beating normally again. Deep breaths get oxygen into the lungs and coughing movements squeeze the heart and keep the blood circulating. The squeezing pressure on the heart also helps it regain normal rhythm. In this way, heart attack victims can get to a hospital. Tell as many other people as possible about this. It could save their lives!!

It sound so conservative but really I am too scared when received a called saying that someone dead because of the heart attack. Its too common now but please do read the article cause it might helps us~

Life is not that we think but at least its prevention before we give up right ...

Runaway Maid~

This is happened to a lot of people, I've heard stories all over the place. Even just recently me myself had talk about my sister in law maid wanted to going back home but the permit has few month balance. We were pursuit the little girl (maid) to stay tune until the permit expired. Furthermore my sister in-law is pregnant therefore she need more helps. So we been talking about my maid who already worked with me ; as same as a duration that I've been working with the company that I attached too now. They had told me that how lucky I am ... I was compliment her . She's good... honestly... I'm not demanding so as long as my children have been taking care of; me and my husband are orite.~

Well the feeling is until you have experienced it yourself , you would not believe that these is real.

Yeah ... my bibik (maid) run away ~ after less that 24hours I met my sister in-law...

The story begin , when she told me that she wanted to visit her friend some where near to my place. I was about to going back to home town and she decided not to follow( for the first time, after 2 1/2 years) but wanted to overnight at her friend places. Since she been working with me for two years and the half I never allow her to join any friend to shopping or what ever. Of course she got 2 days off - but in house. So I decided to agreed on that planed. I trust her. She never do things that not suppose to do .. you know maid ~ they are superb... brilliant mind but honestly I never doubt on her.

Basically she's good. She have no problem at all with us. She treat my children s like her own children s. She's very close with my youngest son. Let me share with you all if you guys forgot. I have 3 children s and the youngest is 12 years old. Reason to have maid at home is I need an assistants. My hubby always not at home~ so please imagine how struggles she is with 3 children s!( bodo kan bukan kena suap makan pun anak aku )

So on 3rd February 2011 , I HAVE SENT HER to her friend places. Gotten her friend hand phone and unit no ; I have given a full trust to her. She asked me to withdrew her salary and I did it , but I keep the balance of one month salary. I never thought that it was the last time I saw her.

We were talking in the car , and she told me that please call her early , so she can prepare her stuff when the time that I'll suppose to pick her up . How could you imagine 44 years old bibik , who works with you for almost 700days can just go like that! She act like nothing will be happened but I'm sure she have planned this earlier.

She called me at 2pm after 4 hours I dropped her at her friend apartment and told me that she's looking for better job! I'm so speechless ! It's happened when we all is on our way back to my hometown. I'm so frustrated and I cant accept why she did this to me.

~ well , finally we cope with it , my hubby was doing her check out memo.~ We take it with the good faith. Things happened always with reason. I have to accept the weakness from my side. But of course deep inside my heart-perhaps she don't do this to us because we love her so much . She part of our family anyway. My mom's always said she's good. She's pray and she's old.. so she's not like other maid out there you know, so we missed her~

BUT after a week the bloody fucker sms-ing my hubby and asked to bank in the balance of her money. FUCK YOU!! you have run away , and you dare to sms-ing us and asked your balance of your salary. Did you know that we have to pay for your check out memo because your visa are still valid? and cost us a month of your salary bloody old woman! I got so frustrated and I did not know how to share.I never thought that she will do this to us. Fine, you have run way, we finally decided to just take as faith and again you sms-ing us out of nowhere. Further in the message , she claimed that she's not happy and made a complaint that I always late paid her and that she gets beaten up(mentally). HAAAAAAA??????!!!!!! Gosh, I’ll bet my hubby REALLY wants to beat her up now!!! What lies…….*sigh*

I don't know if I have treated her badly. So far I cant even remember when I shouted at her. I was treat her good like someone who older than me.Very much respect but they always take us for granted. As my husband always remind me if happen I want to recruit a new bibik please have a barrier. But being a working mother I want to treat my bibik part of my family hoping that my children s will be taking care off.

My hubby right now at the Indon embassy…….let’s see what happens. I just wanted to warn you that even if you are nice to a maid and give her no reason to leave you, she could still turn away from you because the lure of the agent’s money is greater. Consider yourself warned~

Now my children s helping me out. Almost two weeks we don't have a maid at home and we still managed to survive. And we have decided not to have a maid ~

bitter OR better

How do you create a happy life after an affair? That is exactly what I have been able to do and I believe it is possible for everyone, whether they stay in the marriage or not, but it will definitely take some time and some hard work..

When this kind of a negative change takes place we human beings go through normal stages, as we learn to cope with the new reality. First, we go into shock. We can’t believe it is happening to us. This looks different for different people. Some people might go into depression. Some people laugh all the time. Some people become despondent and start neglecting their responsibilities. Whatever it looks like for the individual, it is shock..

Second stage, and again this is human nature, we all tend to do this. I call it the bargaining stage. We try to get our lives back to what they were before, fix it so to speak. But once a major change has taken place in our life, we can NEVER go back to what it was before. We tend to compare , we start pointing finger and this is definitely true of marriages and affairs...

So we eventually come to the third stage. I call it the ‘choice’ stage. We can either carry around a chip on our shoulder for the rest of our lives, and say ‘poor me’. If it wasn’t for what this jerk or that person did, I wouldn’t be here today, and we can blame others for where we are in our lives…OR…we can CHOOSE to find the opportunities that ALWAYS present themselves in the midst of change. If you choose to find these opportunities one day you will find yourself saying “I can’t believe I’m saying this. I never thought I would ever be able to say this. As awful as that situation was back then…I am SO glad that happened to me, because if that hadn’t happened to me, I wouldn’t be in this great place today....

After all, I would think about my marriage in turmoil, all that I had lost and I would wonder if I still believed this truth…Well I can tell you today, that now I own those words about the affair…as awful and painful as it was…I am so glad that happened to me, because if it hadn’t, I wouldn’t be in this great place today. I would still be bumping along in my pre affair life, all about responsibility, not having fun or really enjoying life, still so much pain from my past, haunting me in my subconscious and affecting the way I related to others, preventing me from experiencing true freedom and joy in my life...

There are opportunities for you in this miserable, painful, difficult journey you are being FORCED (the childbirth analogy) to walk through right now. You too can have a better life as a result of this awful unfair situation. You can and will make it through this. The choice is yours…bitter or better?

p/s : I - could be you also,  : the story might not happen to me but from the observation that take a part. But  it's at least alarm everyone ~ good day everyone~     

Cyling day ~

Its was on Thursday ~ most of my Hindu's friend celebrating their thaipusam in Batu caves~ my children's have got nothing to do since the daddy is very busy.

I'll suppose to go to gym and my eldest son suggested to go cycling.Arguably, the best way to enjoy cycling is with a group, and there's no better group than your own family.There is no reason why I cant do that since that each of them have their own bicycle.

We decided to cycling from our teratak in Wangsa Melawati up to Pasar Keramat and cycling back home. Its really excited because this gonna be their first time cycling on the road.



Whether to wear a helmet or not is currently a matter of personal choice ,the majority of the cycle industry wishes it to remain that way. Certainly, in some accidents a helmet can reduce the risk of severe head injury but every accident is different and therefore the outcome can never be judged before the incident.

We started ride at 5.30pm and finally finished the 6km ride at 7.30pm.

ready to go ...

We had difficulty when on the way back home ; terrible heavy raining with the lightning and storm. We wanted to wait till raining get over , unfortunately the raining wasn't stop. Finally we just ride back home altho it's still raining. My children's really enjoy cycling and play the rain. Myself ;I think the last time I'm plays rain was 20 years back.

Altho we were wet  but we are safely arrived home. Most important is my children's happy.

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