Influenza B

I remembered on Saturday , I kasi paracetamol muka dia swollen , mata bengkak.. I bawak dia to nearest clinic. Doctor said allergic probably .. Yelah .. Bukan amik darah bagai kan ..

But Dr Hafiz did mentioned kalau still demam p check darah.

So when Monday came , dia tak kebah , I bawak p clinic near to my opis . Dr Hadhanah asked me to refer him to specialist .. It must be viral fever , katanya .. Then I seek for 2nd opinion  the doctor advise that I could do it manually at home by giving him water and 100 plus..( Reading blood platelet 137)

Unfortunately the fever still..lagi panas, dia start vomiting  so we decided to sent him to Gleneagles Medical Centre .So I have decided for him to do medical check up. Marcus , Dr Lalita assistant @ Gleneagle A&E collect the resulting fluid from nose to do RIDT Rapid Influenza Diagnostic Test .( Cause when he asked me & hubby there is a symptom of Influenza - which I thought was dengue earlier)

Lembik .. Cian dia...

He heard that the doctor told me that his having influenza B - H1N1 .
So he told me that "mummy kena pakai mask" . He looked down . Me either. Yelah macam macam kat kepala hotak , but lucky us Dr Ng Sui Yin his pediatrician has convince and brief us about the virus. Influenza viruses spread in tiny droplets caused by coughing and sneezing. They usually spread from person to person. Sometimes, however, people become infected by touching something that was recently contaminated with the virus and then touching their mouth or nose . But as the Dr Ng told us for not to worried because its seem command now days .

looking at the bills I was shocked with the price

So everything begin with tamiflue , arius , brufen , aloclair , ibuprofen ..Within 3 days he has been in separated room , dripping , take all medicine..

And today I've learned so many terms and how treat my son well with the medicine. How does this happen to him. He is healthy clean kids. I have not been told or noticed sick children by school, of course I had brought them on our normal weekly activity . He went to school , I brought him to the grocery store and food court so I guess they could have been exposed anywhere.

I have to admit I am thankful if this is the extent of this flu and my children are handling it just fine. For this horrible hyped up, frightening, H1N1 is became command.

Mummy love you so much ...

My baby tested positive for Influenza B and it does not make me a bad mom. I want others to know that this horrible, I would rather him to have this Influenza B then have a stomach flu or an ear infection any day.( mode : pujuk hati larroo).
 Today he still under tamiflu medication and I'm very sure he will fine and better. No worries baby its command now!  


Kids get sick, and when they get better they become stronger, insya allah..

Christmas party 2011

Farahdina : Why me? ( sambil tunjuk buih buih lekat kat rambut dia .. )

We walked together but twice dia kena sembur , heheh ... Its cool celebration , we hang out together without our younger son Satria .

Farok : That is differentiate between anak dara and mak dara ..

Hahaha , finally we laugh ..

We celebrating Oat's birthday in Watami before the countdown .  

So after makan , diorang nak tengok the countdown .. Pavilion was like an market , penuh dengan manusia ... Seriously macam you went to concert something like that.. I can see a lot of kakak2 and abang 2 selling the spray buih ... pavi was floated with buih. So far takda gaduh . Its fun sometimes ...

h.a.n.d.b.a.g.s

Masa I mula mula bayar for the summer camp, I did not consult sesiapa kecuali Farok - The Boss. I just rasa that I kena hantar diorang .Dengan apa yang terjadi lately buat I sendiri menjadi takut. Dengan melihat anak anak remaja dalam paper yang macam macam jadi , I tak tahu apa pendekatan yang terbaik untuk anak anak ini.

Anak anak kita dah lali dengan bebelan ibubapa mereka sendiri. Kadang kadang method third party amat berkesan dalam keadaan sekarang ni. Lebih lebih lagi kawan adalah teman yang paling senang dipengaruhi.Tapi siapa teman teman anak anak kita manakan kita tahu. Kita berkerja mengejar hak hakiki !So I guess I rasa diorang patut pergi for "Summer Camp " this time. Their are fourteen , thirteen and twelve..Da besar , dah boleh berdikari.. Well is not like "mat salleh" summer camp. Its a place where children can experience the richness, excitement, and warmth of an Islamic environment; a place where children learn the importance of caring, sharing, tolerance, patience, and working with others. 

Masa mula mula sampai , tiga tiga moyok ,tapi bila I amek diorang tadi I can see they understand why I sent them . I just a mother who wanted them to recognized for imparting education that brings about a balance of traditional and modern values. The different about Islam and others . They are also learn for the high moral values and for their emphasis on the attainment of high academic standards.

In one of the programmed , I dapat surat dari diorang. Kata facilitator betapa ikhlasnya anak anak kami menulis. Menangis , memohon kebesaran ilahi , bertasbih mengenal rasulullah. Alhamdulillah! Takda apa yang lagi gembira daripada tahu betapa ikhlasnya mereka. Saya dan Farok was crying on that session . Insaf! Bertakafur .. malah setuju dengan kata one of the facilitator ; dulu program begini tidak berapa penting tapi dengan apa yang kita ada sekarang , dengan WiFi yang merata rata ada ni ramai antara kita tidak mampu melawan arus kemajuan itu.Insya Allah program program keagamaan sebegini mungkin bisa membentuk keperibadian mulia anak anak kita.

This is my reply to them :-

Anak anak mommy , 

I never thought to get a chance to kenal siapa kalian. Ini adalah hadiah yang paling indah. Menjaga, mendidik kalian , menyayangi kalian adalah anugerah yang tidak ternilai dengan kata kata. Biar apa orang kata , seorang pun takkan paham betapa cintanya mommy pada kalian. Betapa indahnya menjadi ibu walaupun bukan melahirkan kalian.

Mommy mohon satu sekiranya apa sekalipun terjadi antara kami , kalian tetap anak anak mommy dunia dan ahkirat. Insya allah.

Green Pants ~ Anak mommy dah besar

For every week when I get him back from his mother’s there are noticeable changes. He has learned new phrases, and new ways of interacting with his environment, but for sure he know that I love him than anything else. I'm not bias but watching him develop and interact with the world around him is fascinating and intriguing... His my baby ..

I'll seen the real him . I'll see him growth . 

I could hear in his voice just how sincere those words were. His understood how much I’d driven around to allow him to attend events, and without question, he was truly grateful.Instead of taking for granted the sacrifice of a parent, this child had now reached a point of maturity to be able to see the big picture and empathize with the efforts of another.

There was my son, but no longer was my baby boy. Life was now taking him down diverse paths, and he was more than ready for the new adventures. As the streams of tears somehow made their way down my cheeks, I was reminded of just how fast these treasures we’ve been given as parents grow up, and the need we have to cherish each moment with them now, as the opportunities are still there.

His ready with his green pants ! His almost 13 !

Runaway Maid~

This is happened to a lot of people, I've heard stories all over the place. Even just recently me myself had talk about my sister in law maid wanted to going back home but the permit has few month balance. We were pursuit the little girl (maid) to stay tune until the permit expired. Furthermore my sister in-law is pregnant therefore she need more helps. So we been talking about my maid who already worked with me ; as same as a duration that I've been working with the company that I attached too now. They had told me that how lucky I am ... I was compliment her . She's good... honestly... I'm not demanding so as long as my children have been taking care of; me and my husband are orite.~

Well the feeling is until you have experienced it yourself , you would not believe that these is real.

Yeah ... my bibik (maid) run away ~ after less that 24hours I met my sister in-law...

The story begin , when she told me that she wanted to visit her friend some where near to my place. I was about to going back to home town and she decided not to follow( for the first time, after 2 1/2 years) but wanted to overnight at her friend places. Since she been working with me for two years and the half I never allow her to join any friend to shopping or what ever. Of course she got 2 days off - but in house. So I decided to agreed on that planed. I trust her. She never do things that not suppose to do .. you know maid ~ they are superb... brilliant mind but honestly I never doubt on her.

Basically she's good. She have no problem at all with us. She treat my children s like her own children s. She's very close with my youngest son. Let me share with you all if you guys forgot. I have 3 children s and the youngest is 12 years old. Reason to have maid at home is I need an assistants. My hubby always not at home~ so please imagine how struggles she is with 3 children s!( bodo kan bukan kena suap makan pun anak aku )

So on 3rd February 2011 , I HAVE SENT HER to her friend places. Gotten her friend hand phone and unit no ; I have given a full trust to her. She asked me to withdrew her salary and I did it , but I keep the balance of one month salary. I never thought that it was the last time I saw her.

We were talking in the car , and she told me that please call her early , so she can prepare her stuff when the time that I'll suppose to pick her up . How could you imagine 44 years old bibik , who works with you for almost 700days can just go like that! She act like nothing will be happened but I'm sure she have planned this earlier.

She called me at 2pm after 4 hours I dropped her at her friend apartment and told me that she's looking for better job! I'm so speechless ! It's happened when we all is on our way back to my hometown. I'm so frustrated and I cant accept why she did this to me.

~ well , finally we cope with it , my hubby was doing her check out memo.~ We take it with the good faith. Things happened always with reason. I have to accept the weakness from my side. But of course deep inside my heart-perhaps she don't do this to us because we love her so much . She part of our family anyway. My mom's always said she's good. She's pray and she's old.. so she's not like other maid out there you know, so we missed her~

BUT after a week the bloody fucker sms-ing my hubby and asked to bank in the balance of her money. FUCK YOU!! you have run away , and you dare to sms-ing us and asked your balance of your salary. Did you know that we have to pay for your check out memo because your visa are still valid? and cost us a month of your salary bloody old woman! I got so frustrated and I did not know how to share.I never thought that she will do this to us. Fine, you have run way, we finally decided to just take as faith and again you sms-ing us out of nowhere. Further in the message , she claimed that she's not happy and made a complaint that I always late paid her and that she gets beaten up(mentally). HAAAAAAA??????!!!!!! Gosh, I’ll bet my hubby REALLY wants to beat her up now!!! What lies…….*sigh*

I don't know if I have treated her badly. So far I cant even remember when I shouted at her. I was treat her good like someone who older than me.Very much respect but they always take us for granted. As my husband always remind me if happen I want to recruit a new bibik please have a barrier. But being a working mother I want to treat my bibik part of my family hoping that my children s will be taking care off.

My hubby right now at the Indon embassy…….let’s see what happens. I just wanted to warn you that even if you are nice to a maid and give her no reason to leave you, she could still turn away from you because the lure of the agent’s money is greater. Consider yourself warned~

Now my children s helping me out. Almost two weeks we don't have a maid at home and we still managed to survive. And we have decided not to have a maid ~

Cyling day ~

Its was on Thursday ~ most of my Hindu's friend celebrating their thaipusam in Batu caves~ my children's have got nothing to do since the daddy is very busy.

I'll suppose to go to gym and my eldest son suggested to go cycling.Arguably, the best way to enjoy cycling is with a group, and there's no better group than your own family.There is no reason why I cant do that since that each of them have their own bicycle.

We decided to cycling from our teratak in Wangsa Melawati up to Pasar Keramat and cycling back home. Its really excited because this gonna be their first time cycling on the road.



Whether to wear a helmet or not is currently a matter of personal choice ,the majority of the cycle industry wishes it to remain that way. Certainly, in some accidents a helmet can reduce the risk of severe head injury but every accident is different and therefore the outcome can never be judged before the incident.

We started ride at 5.30pm and finally finished the 6km ride at 7.30pm.

ready to go ...

We had difficulty when on the way back home ; terrible heavy raining with the lightning and storm. We wanted to wait till raining get over , unfortunately the raining wasn't stop. Finally we just ride back home altho it's still raining. My children's really enjoy cycling and play the rain. Myself ;I think the last time I'm plays rain was 20 years back.

Altho we were wet  but we are safely arrived home. Most important is my children's happy.

Q.U.A.R.A.N.T.I.N.E

I am thoroughly exhausted. I have no idea why. I thought the weekend of rest and naps would allow me to bounce back this week and be ready to go, but my body is still sluggishly tired. 
I'm moving at the pace of a snail and I've done practically nothing all day. I've spent most of the day staring blankly at MBC still discussing about the new JD for next year . 
Cannot wait to get on the shuttle home. I don't even know if I have the strength to go out tonight... correction: I don't have the strength to go out tonight (just unmade plans).

When I get some sleep and I feel better about myself, I'm sure I'll be incredibly excited and forward-thinking and have lots of positive things to say. For now, though, I just think of negatives. But, I still want to do it - lol - which shows you how hopeless. I need a change - drastic change. Except, because I am who I am and I feel so uncomfortable about things in my office, I just want to go into hibernation mode and talk to no one. I'm trying to resist the urge to do that because I know it's not healthy, but I still really just want to dig myself into a hole in the ground. I think work has worn me out and I can't handle being social. Blerg. I'll get over it. In the meantime, I want to brainstorm all the things I want to do when I get here. Maybe that will make me feel better.

Hahahah .... arrived home my maid  just told me that my son temperature goes up 40 degrees. Checked again his body temperature , straight away bring him to the nearest clinic. I've forgotten that I'm also had fever.. Goshh ...


Doctor had given me two days MC. Doesn't really work on me because I'm still working at home...
But the most important is I'm around to monitor my son...

Parenting....

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