Ramadhan datang lagi 2011

Terus-terang, aku memang suka sangat dengan kedatangan Ramadahan ini. Kalau zaman kanak-kanak/remaja dulu semasa di kampung, aku tak nafikan suka amat dengan kepelbagaian juadah , keluarga besar jadi waktu berbuka itu terasa sangat indah dengan riuhan sana kami yang suka berebut2 makanan. Walaupun juadah kami tidak semewah mana, tetapi aktiviti ‘berebut’ itulah yang membuatkan kami berselera makan dan mengeratkan lagi hubungan kekeluargaan. Seronoknya menikmati zaman itu tambahan pula arwah atuk masih ada saat itu ... terasa meriah saya hingga sekarang , terasa arwah atuk masih segar tatkala ramadhan datang .. teratak itu tempat kami ber terawih setiap kali semua berkumpul ...

Apabila mula bekerja , aku agak lupa pada ramadhan .. Bukan lupa keindahan ramadhan tapi lupa juadahnya , lupa terawih nya; aku tak ingat sepanjang bekerja aku ada jejaki kaki di masjid untuk ibadah terawih... betapa ruginya aku ... aku tak ingat bila aku menziarahi bazar ramadhan sepanjang ramadhan tapi itu semua dulu ; sudah tiga kali aku mengisafi kehadiran ramadhan . Menangisi agar ramadhan datang lagi .. Bermutajat agar dia hadir lagi ... betapa indahnya jiwa tatkala dia hadir .. betapa sejuknya hati tatkala dia menghampiri .. Allahhuakbar !

Bagaimana andainya Ramadhan kali ini tidak dapat aku temui? Mungkinkah nyawaku ditarik sebelum sempatnya Ramadhan kembali? Segala persoalan ku tahu tidak akan terjawab namun, aku kembali memohon kepada Dia, Allah S.W.T, panjangkanlah usia hambamu ini, dan berikanlah kesempatan memenuhi Ramadhan-Mu lagi. Kerana Ramadhan dahulu aku telah mengecewakan Mu, Ya Allah. Kerana Ramadhan dahulu aku telah banyak mensia-siakan Ramadhan dengan kealpaan dan kemungkaran.
Ramadhan, bulan penuh keberkatan. Mengapa ia dikatakan begini? Sudah tentu semua telah maklum bahawa Ramadhan merupakan satu-satunya bulan yang kita diuji dengan pelbagai corak ujian untuk mengukur kesabaran demi memperoleh seribu kebaikkan daripadanya. Masya-Allah!

Sista,my simple message is....

Sis ,
Breaking up is never fun. The end of a relationship means the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both people. If the break up was mutual both people will experience a period of adjustment where they are getting used to no longer being together. If the break up was not mutual the person who ended things may be dealing with guilt and feelings that they may have made a mistake. The person being broken up with will definitely have to adjust, first to being rejected and second to life without somebody they still care for. How do you get through those first few weeks? Here we list eight essential things everybody must do in the early days of a break up to let the healing begin.

When you called me and told me that you ex now with his ex. It keep smiling until to my ear. Did you know there 10 list principle we shouldn't when we broke up and one of it is :-
~ Don’t slip up and get together with your ex. When you are feeling sad or missing a relationship it can be very easy to fall back in to the arms of your ex but DO NOT DO THIS. This will only set you back and let’s face it, if things ended the relationship wasn’t perfect to begin with so why would you want to rekindle things?

Babe ,
my simple message is :-
Maintain a strict no contact policy and stick with it. Don’t pass notes through friends. Don’t make any calls. Stay away from instant messaging or texting on your cell. Just don’t contact your ex until you are totally and completely sure you no longer want to be with him or her. It is the only way.
MOVE YOUR ASS !! look something better in real life ..

If they don't say "I love you, too," it's still okay. You're better off revealing your feelings than hiding them and getting hurt down the line. Besides, just because someone doesn't love you right this instant doesn't mean they won't feel it later on.

i do love you ... xoxo

Age only the number ..

Dear mom & dad ,

Thanks for the greeting cards.I am proud to be your Little Girl! Whether I need a little extra spending money, a light bulb replaced, a sounding board, or some sympathy, you are always there for me. Thank you for being such a fantastic. I lucked out!

Dear family members,
I just wanted to thank you again for the impromptu birthday celebration at your beautiful home. The festive dining table, fantastic dinner and even presents... thanks once again..What I do have of course is all of you and that makes every day special. I appreciate all you did very much, including your time and attention in the midst of your own hectic schedules. Thanks for beautiful present ...and the food was awesome ...

Those who not around it's okay ..thanks for the wishes and the gift ,I wanted to let all of you to know how much it means to me. Your thoughtfulness always makes my days a little brighter,you have a knack for always saying or doing the right thing. I'm lucky that you're so skilled at getting past my flaws and concentrating on what's good. What would I ever do without all of you ...

Dear friend ,

You are so sweet to remember my big day! I was trying to forget it but when your gift arrived, I was actually glad it really was my birthday. I love the gift and all the wishes.. Thanks again for thinking of me..It's rare to find a friend with whom you can trust with your most personal thoughts, but also who won't be judgmental and who truly cares about you and wants to help. How lucky I am to have found such a wonderful friend as you. I only hope I can be half as good a friend to you. It's people like you who make a true difference in this world!

Dear mr hubby ,

I am simply put you for the last paragraph.. Cause so many thing that I need you to know ...
First ;-Thanks for being my Husband.., Thanks for thinking about me.., Thanks for care about me..,Thanks for everything you did for me.., You shouldn’t have But I’m so glad you did..
Second:- Wanted to take a moment to say thank you to you one who showered me with love, cards, cash, meal, calls, e-mails, and birthday greetings.
Third :- Thanks for surprise party , lunch at One Utama, Dinner @ San Fransisco Pizza and the supper @ Tutti Frutti .
Thanks again for taking the time out of your busy schedules and to brighten up my birthday like Robert Frost once said, "“A diplomat is a man who always remembers a woman's birthday but never remembers her age.” Thanks for being diplomatic another year.

Many thanks to all of you !

Differences between muffin vs cupcakes?

His smile, his smell , his touch, his eyes things that I thought to forget that keep popping into my mind memories teard apart my days months years and I kept waiting and nothing kept happening...hahahha !!Oppss it's not true ! But what I can remember is "I have forget about the price tags !

Honestly I missed him . Miss his smile .. miss the way he treat me ... ! Its not crap ! I believe that part of growing up and becoming an adult in relationships is knowing when - and how - to let go in a war-of-strong-wills. To get out of that situation - when neither wants to be the first to attempt detente - takes a great deal of emotional maturity and not a small amount of wisdom. I'm not sure that was there. I think it could develop, but it hadn't yet ...Despite all this .. what I know the next day .. I felt sorry what were happen between us.. but for sure I would never lie to him.. I am not capable of giving him what he deserve in a relationship, even an "alternative" relationship, so, we should stop seeing each other. I think he his awesome, but I think it's impossible to be together.

When we no longer have access to the one person we knew inside and out, we tell ourselves that just having a glimpse of their life after us is all we need to move on. Sometimes, when we say that all we want is to know, all we really want is to not have to even think about it.

After all I met him again in very simple occasion that I would never thought to have a great chance to meet him again. He never changed.. but honestly I miss him . In the end, I said the truth, cliche as it may have been— it’s not you it’s me. We sat there awkwardly for a while..

So here I am, an hour later, feeling somewhat like a traitor writing about doing exactly what drives most people to seek refuge on this blog in the first place, but let it be known that no matter what side you’re on, no matter how wrong it all was anyways ~~

I know you always care

You always forgive me

You make sure everything is ok

You always tell me so...

I don't need you next to me

To know that you always around ..

cause I know you do babe ! 

Asmara ||| Love

Was talking to a friend and the question came up, what one piece of advice could I give him from this journey?To answer the question with just one idea is very difficult but the one I choose is: We all have the ability to control how we react to any and everything...

It would be easy for me to be angry, to be bitter, to be jealous, and to be in despair. However, I choose to love, to laugh, to live, and to inspire...

Today, I am a total quadriplegic with virtually no movement (take that back...I can chew). The crazy thing is if I went to a doctor for him to evaluate my lungs and diaphragm he would say, "dude, how are you still here!" Well maybe they wouldn't have said dude but it's my words.

Thank God my handbags basically keeps me breathing so that; we can enjoy our love for each other in small peaceful moments.

Thinking about this, the next time you have a bad day remember me and understand how you react - is your choice...

p/s: Understand how you react is your choice ...

HERO

Lets keep this thread interesting and lets take a moment to think about the best of our husband. Every day in and day out we love,fight,understand,quarrel, bite,pinch,cry,smile and hug.
This is life...But we all should accept that our husband is the only soul created and bonded especially for us.It is just that situation and once's emotions/mood that keep happy or wild..
and lets rejoice with the one who is specially made for us and lets keep loving them forever :)

1) Was your's love or arranged marriage?
2) Your husband's pet name for you?
3) What is your husband's shirt and trouser size, fav dish,color,hobby ?
4) Do you like if you husband talks or gets close to his mom and his family
(need honest answers ?
5) List the top 5 best qualities of your husband ?
6)What aspects do you think that your husband should change for you (3 points)?
7)What do you feel is the secret of successful marriage ( 3 points) ?
** if u guys unable to answer 4 from 7 question , please learn to know your hubby better ~

Wishing you all happy happy married life forever.

** copy same from others blogger ..

A visit

We managed to park on the grass adjacent to the small car park most times but on one occasion, at the weekend, took what was the last space in the car park across the road.

Pack your stuff , sit back relax and enjoy the journey.

We had an extremely enjoyable stay here for a short trip. Arrived a couple of hours early but were checked in right away to our room – a premium water chalet – would recommend these as the view is right across the sea rather than to other chalets as shown in my photo. The room was clean and pleasantly spacious and we loved the outside shower/bathroom arrangement. The free Wifi worked very well.

The pools were all good though we spent most of our time by the adult one (as did the peacocks). The other pools were just as good and had more sections to interest children.

We found all the staff very friendly and helpful, particularly those in the restaurants. We had several buffets and enjoyed them very much, they were not cheap but we were hungry as we do not eat much lunch so we had value for money.

Regarding less favorable comments made by previous reviewers – we had no problems of any sort with insects; possibly it was the time of year or they had successfully dealt with them. Breakfast was acceptable and enjoyable though sometimes rather crowded but this was to be expected during school holidays and the staff were always very good at refilling everything and getting anything extra we wanted.

Overall an excellent holiday and we shall be back.